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By Matthew Hussey. Most dating books tell you what NOT to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you CAN do. In his book, Get the Guy , Matthew Hussey—relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love —reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love.
Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success.
As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance. Someone you love disappoints you. Or he leaves you. You fall for someone, hard, then never hear from him again. Even at the best of times, love can be traumatizing, like being punched in the gut. We patch up our hearts and go forth, hoping to find our real true love.
Why risk it all again? Because nothing feels as good as being in love. There is nothing better than lying in bed on a Sunday morning with someone who drives you wild. There is no business opportunity, no promotion, no holiday, no amount of money that makes our hearts swell so. Whatever your experiences with guys have been in the past, I know the odds are you will go out and try to find love again. So often I hear, where are all the good men? Some may well be guys you date, and one may be the man of your dreams.
The real benefit to the techniques I teach is that you will raise the level at which you live your life. Women who live passionate lives are inherently sexy and attractive. What I teach in this book is how you can be proactive in your love life without seeming desperate or easy, and how you can choose the man you want to meet but still get him to do the chasing. When I was just starting to notice girls, I used to wonder how other guys always seemed to be able to get the girl they wanted, while I somehow always ended up with whoever would have me.
It drove me mad. Even at a young age, I knew that there were rules of attraction that eluded me. The frustration I felt about my own lack of prowess spurred me to teach myself how to become acquainted with the girls to whom I was attracted, how to talk to them, how to attract them, and how to win them. Over the years, I became more confident and successful. I believed I had tapped into something I could share with others, and I started to coach other guys on how to do the same for themselves.
My coaching business grew quickly, and over the course of a few years, I worked with more than ten thousand guys on how to attract women. By trying to overcome my own limitations I wound up developing a widespread reputation throughout the United Kingdom for helping guys with their love lives. I was featured in a major documentary and dubbed in the press as a real-life Hitch, after the romantic comedy starring Will Smith as a professional date doctor.
One day I was giving a talk to a room full of three hundred guys, and to break the ice I asked, So, who here wants to get laid? There was no reason for them to be anything but honest. You would think they would all raise their hands. But only 60 percent of them raised their hands. Then I asked, Who here wants to find a great relationship? And do you know what happened? Every single hand in the room went up. If women knew this about men, I thought, it might make them feel more optimistic about finding true love.
At first, the thought of coaching women seemed daunting. Why would anyone listen to me? How could I possibly help? But then the idea struck me that I knew what guys were thinking. I had spent years learning about what makes guys tick and what they were looking for. What if I took all of that acquired intelligence and shared it with women so they could use it to find love? I could help them get noticed, get dates, and get treated with respect.
Perhaps I could even help them to get the proposal of marriage so many of my female friends thought was out of reach. I created some basic and practical steps for women to follow and then hosted a small gathering for the women in my life. We worked on elegant techniques the women could use to influence men without ever looking as if they were doing anything.
The key to making it all work is striking the perfect balance between being proactive and being high value. More about that later. I had no idea how this would all go over, but my friends were floored. In some ways, I felt as if I was betraying my own sex by coming over to fight for the other side, but I really wanted to bring some assistance to my female friends.
Even though I believed every word of what I told these women, what happened next was crazy. Within the next week my single friends began getting dates with men who appealed to them. Those in relationships started saying their boyfriends were treating them with more respect, admiration, and attraction.
Men who had never said, I love you started saying it for the first time; one even proposed, though previously he had said he never would. Word spread. E-mails flooded my inbox from women with dating and relationship questions. I began conducting private coaching sessions. This was the beginning of what would be a years-long journey of working with fifty thousand women in Get the Guy events, and with millions online, to help them find love.
The contents of this book are the result of what I have been thinking about, teaching, and refining over the past four years. The next morning they return to the seminar and recount their stories. It is my hope that you will do the same after reading this book. Get the Guy is meant to be a double entendre. Some of it might strike you as a little blunt, but were I writing a book for men I would be just as direct about what they should be doing to find women, and believe me, the book would be much longer.
Think of me as your personal insider, the guy in your corner. I know there is a lot of information out there about how to improve your love life. These are the shallow and deep ends of the spectrum and may well have value. With a proper model, you will be successful.
It has nothing to do with luck or fate or Cupid showing up with bow and arrow. Your love life is not determined by romantic notions and magical thinking, but rather by a set of conditions that everyone and anyone can create. Learning simple, new behaviors that allow you to meet more guys and choose those you like. Creating a high-value lifestyle that will draw men to you and satisfy you with or without your guy. Finding the Guy will teach you how to meet more men, get them to approach you, and engage in conversation that will tell you within minutes whether you want to get to know a guy better.
This part of the book focuses primarily on how to increase your odds of meeting the right guy. Getting the Guy deals with methods for creating attraction and deepening your connection to find out if this is a guy you want in your life. Finally, Keeping the Guy focuses on the work that we all have to do when we finally find the love of our life. You will learn that the theories that apply in the beginning are also relevant at the end.
However, I wanted to overdeliver for you, so I have taken strategic snippets from my live seminars—which women fly from all over the world to attend—and put them online. In these videos, I speak directly to you with the hope that your reading experience is enhanced, and you get the most from this book.
And here is my promise to you: if you read this book, watch the videos, and truly put the advice into practice, you will meet more guys, your love life will improve, and ultimately so will your life. And when I say meet, I refer to a genuine social interaction, where you engage with a man, eye contact and all, for anywhere from five minutes of chatting to a full two-hour conversation.
How long will it take to meet Mr. Right if you are meeting only one new man in an average week? What makes them even longer is that these interactions are probably happening by chance, and certainly not because they are men you have selected yourself.
If I asked the same question of a male reader, the number would be just as small. Both sexes are guilty of leaving their love lives to chance. The fate-will-bring-me-love approach lacks urgency, which leads to lack of action. You assume that when the time is right the right guy will come along, and in the meantime you focus on your work, your ambitions, your family, your friends, your hobbies.
When people put aside their love life to focus on these other areas, years pass, and one day the lack of urgency turns into panic. We become frantic as we realize that not only is nothing happening in our love life, but we are at a loss as to how to make it happen, which of course leads to more panic, creating a loop of frustration, at best, or worse, hopelessness. You may be reading this book because you keep asking yourself and perhaps your sisters, girlfriends, and coworkers , Where are all the good men to be found?
You are going to have to go out and find him. A word of encouragement before you set out to meet the man of your dreams: Life is full of people who wait. They wait for the right moment to approach someone, or wait for someone to approach them first. They wait to feel confident before taking action. Wait, wait, wait, for everything. Waiters imagine they are playing it safe, but more often than not, only two things come to those who wait: the wrong thing or no-thing.
Ask yourself: Right now, at this very moment, am I waiting or am I creating?
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Get the Guy is a dating book for women sharing dating strategies and techniques to meet more and better men. He urges to drop that mentality, build a lifestyle where you meet tons of new men and give as many men as possible a chance. Social Life Serving Love Life Matthew Hussey advises an old technique around the social improvement field: says yes every time, to every invite. Take in the environment, see and let yourself be seen. These traits are:. Self Confidence Hussey says that a high-value woman is confident in her own value and knows what she wants.
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